Stand above the current, or get swept away into madness. You have to rise above the trash and set better standards. And if you can't overcome your faults, then you're no better than the garbage you get stuck with. Of course, if you find controlling your emotions challenging, because a pretty face overrules all logic, then at least you can empathize with women who act irrationally for a pretty face too.īeing human ain't easy, but the ones who can overcome their faults "ARE" the good ones. I need to stay single until I meet a good woman." But you'll need the discipline to say "hey, this woman is crazy-I won't date her. Don't let yourself become madly in love with someone until you can verify the integrity of their character.Ĭontrolling your emotions can be challenging, especially as a younger person. There are good women out there, and they do want to date good men. You need to get better at vetting women, but being so young makes it challenging, because you don't always know what the red flags are. TLDR: had a shitty breakup with an ex that made me hate women for a little while and still have those anti women thoughts in my mind till this very day while actively trying to fix it I swear I don’t hate women nor am I misogynistic or anything, I don’t have any problem getting sex/ laid etc, but that old red pill rage is still in me, I just know it. But even tho I’m over the breakup and everything, I still have those toxic red pill anti women thoughts lingering around in my mind sometimes and I just can’t get rid of it. but thankfully I’m doing fine after the breakup right now, I’ve accepted that I shouldn’t try and be something I’m not and happy in life rn. a month afterwards I started being on that “bitches ain’t shit” type stuff and started to hate how “nice” and kind I was to women and started to have thoughts on just becoming a douche bag towards women.
At that point I was really convinced that women genuinely just don’t like good men and really like bad boys, assholes etc. That just made me feel so worthless, replaceable and disposable to women and reignited my anger towards women. And later seen that she fucked another dude just only 5 days after the breakup meanwhile I’m just over here suffering and going through it. just to be dropped out of nowhere like I wasn’t shit to her. That breakup really triggered that old “red pill rage” in me again. all just to wake up with a break up text out of nowhere on April the 9th. Bought her valentine gifts, got her a 200$ bracelet, bought her birthday presents, was a shoulder to cry on, made sure she was doing ok since she was going through some things sometimes. She caught feelings first after the hookup and I later reciprocated back after liking her personality but damn I was in love. Let me tell you, I was mad in love with this girl. But back in January this year, 13 days after turning 19 years old I matched with this girl on a dating app and we later hooked up the same day at night and long story short, we caught feelings with each other. Sure the red pill literally saved me from being a “simp” but god that shit was toxic. But thankfully I’ve gotten out of it and away from all the “anti women” stuff that it put in my head. The Red Pill Bros promote cheating (as long as you can get away with it - because cheating is fine, but letting your woman know is cruel), and they don’t seem to express any sort of empathy with the natural emotional needs of a woman.When I was 16, I used to be deep in the red pill rabbit hole which slowly made me bitter towards women and life in general and it almost made me into an incel. The cycle that these Red Pill Bros go through is like a carousel: letting some women on, letting others off. These Red Pill Bros are looking for an obedient doll to sleep with - but heaven forbid that this girl would get attached or actually have consequences attached to the most intimate act we have in our human expression.
Not human beings to connect with on a real level, learn to love, enjoy friendships with, or anything involving emotion, mental or spiritual connection. These Red Pill Bros are searching for young, tight bodies, with no consequences. I cannot tell you how many different articles I've read with the basic idea that because women always search for the alpha male (I'm not convinced by this argument, either, considering I myself didn't marry an alpha-type man and I'm more than thrilled with my marriage choice and never searched for "alphas" when I did date), neither should expect to get into long, meaningful relationships - because these days really all the female is looking for is someone to sleep with (because of female empowerment, y’know).
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